Reasons to consider a ringless proposal

Posted on: 11/10/2024

Less stress

For someone planning to propose, choosing the ring can be the most stressful part. Perhaps your partner doesn't know what they'd like or maybe you can't remember what they've described in the past. 

Either way, using a 'dummy' ring or simply doing a proposal without a ring can lift some of this initial stress. You won't need to worry about hiding it for a prolonged period either. As a result, you can focus on the execution of the proposal itself and go to town with romantic gestures.

Cost concerns

It can be more cost-effective to buy a ring post-proposal rather than in advance. You'll have more time to save up and it also means you don't have to rush your purchase. It gives you the freedom to wait for the right moment and even see whether any sales or special offers crop up after you've proposed.

If you were planning to do a proposal with a ring while abroad, you'd likely need to consider special insurance for added peace of mind. This would add yet another cost that could be avoided with a ringless proposal.

Style and fit

Although some partners are well-briefed when it comes to engagement rings, others may feel a little helpless. Instead of worrying about choosing the right ring for your proposal, simply waiting to buy it together means you can consult experts for advice.

With the right advice, you can walk away with a stunning engagement ring that your partner loves. Plus, you can gain additional insight into your partner's jewellery preferences. This will help you choose the right style and designs in the future.

Alternative romantic gestures

If you're set on buying a ring after your proposal, consider these alternatives for bringing the big moment to life:

• Using an empty box: The idea of getting down on one knee without a prop might feel unnatural, so some people propose with an empty box.
• Get a placeholder: This involves renting or buying an imitation ring with the intention of replacing it later.
• Write them a letter: If a traditional proposal fills you with dread, putting your feelings down on paper and popping the question this way is an equally special way of proposing without a ring.
• Create a scrapbook: Document your journey so far with photos of your time together and leave the rest blank to fill with future memories.
• Go cheesy: If your partner loves a bit of cheese, you could make the proposal comical by offering a key 'to your heart'.

When it comes to unique engagement ideas, there really is no limit.

Get help from F.Hinds

If you go through with a ringless proposal, plan a trip to F.Hinds so the two of you can choose your partner's ring together. After an initial browse online, head to one of our stores to see the options in person. You can consult one of our experts for advice and other tips on how to care for the new purchase.

We're members of the Responsible Jewellery Council (RJC), so regardless of the ring you choose after your proposal, you can buy with confidence.