What Is Your Love Language?

Posted on: 15/03/2023

Do you know what your love language is? Maintaining a healthy relationship with loved ones is key, whether that's with your partner, friends or family. Many believe that understanding love languages in your relationships can be the secret to success. This includes knowing how you and others want to be loved. There are 5 love languages that have been explained by experts and it's easy to find out your own by completing an online quiz. 

Wondering what your love language says about you? This comprehensive guide will give you an idea.

Quality Time

If someone’s love language is quality time, it means they appreciate having a date in the diary to spend time together. This might involve going out to dinner, taking a walk or even sitting in and watching your favourite boxset.  

This is one of the most popular results, showing how the simple act of being with someone and giving them your full attention can make all the difference.

It's common to be distracted by your phone or the TV. Having an awareness of this can be the difference between a healthy relationship and one that can come across as neglectful.

Words Of Affirmation

When it comes to figuring out what your love language is, pay attention to the things that make you feel good. If you have words of affirmation as your love language, you're likely to love receiving compliments. Verbal communication and any expression of gratitude towards someone is the way to make this person feel good. 

This can look like a few different things. Telling someone that you appreciate the meal they’ve made or that you like their outfit will go down a treat. People with words of affirmation as their love language get a lot of validation and fulfilment when someone expresses verbal or even written affection towards them.

Acts Of Service

A helpful deed, whatever that looks like, will give this person butterflies. Acts of service is popular on the list of 5 love languages for people who lead a busy lifestyle. Helpful acts like filling someone’s car with petrol for them, picking up an item they need from the shop, or cleaning the kitchen will be hugely appreciated. 

It's typical for work-oriented individuals or busy parents to favour this type of affection. But as with any love language, you may be surprised by what makes people tick, so it's always worth having the conversation. 

Gift Giving

Receiving a gift, no matter how big or small, makes some people feel all warm and fuzzy inside. The love language of gift-giving shouldn't be underestimated and can come in all shapes and sizes.

The thought and time you put into finding the right present are what counts. You can keep the gifts simple – even picking up their favourite bar of chocolate will go a long way – or go big with a precious piece of jewellery or accessory. Occasions like engagements and the ring chosen to mark the event are a big deal to these people, so make sure you put thought into your decision. 

Physical Touch

Still not sure what your love language is? Let us introduce physical touch. If you're always itching for a hug, chances are that this could be the one. It can be more subtle too, such as being physically near someone. 

More intimate, romantic examples might include kissing your partner after a day at work or holding hands with them in public. Skin-to-skin contact makes you feel safe and secure. If your partner doesn't reciprocate this, you may feel a little deflated so it's important to communicate with them.

Find The Perfect Gift With F.Hinds

Do you know someone whose love language is gift-giving? Let F.Hinds help you choose the perfect item, whether that's a pair of earrings or an intricate bracelet. You can view our jewellery range online or up close in-store, where our experts are available to help.

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